My daughter who was 16 (in July) has been sent, in the post, a vibrator by my brother in law. This was not done in an open way and he thinks I do not know. I have not spoken to my sister but this is not the only example of what I consider inappropriate behaviour. I do not live with my daughter's Dad but he is fuming. To compound things I am due to go on hols with my sister and brother-in-law for a week in a couple of months. My daughter has told my brother in law that the vibrator was inappropriate and he apologised but also said that if accused he would blame it on one of my daughter's friends. (Not sure if he said this in a humorous way or not although it's not funny.) It is all so weird and I do not know what to do. I feel as though I need to tell both sister and brother-in-law but my daughter says do nothing. My daughter says that she does not feel threatened physically even though she believes it has damaged her relationship with her uncle she does not want to ruin the holiday. He certainly has shown no respect for my daughter nor indeed for the related family. I am preparing to say something as my daughter has been upset and arguably manipulated. Any comments
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