.. and I'm dreading the next year.
He's determinedly underperformed the whole way through secondary - not doing homework, arguing with teachers, and then last year not bothering to turn up for some of his mocks.
He's just started in year 11 and the letters/texts have started to come from school, again.
Clearly the school (a decent comp) are determined not to let him fail without a fight on their part, but he's determined to self-sabotage for no reason known to us, them, and probably him.
I'm thinking about the year ahead and almost wishing the school would write him off, as I suspect the end result will be the same. If he won't work he won't work, and he'll fail. He's choosing to fail, while everyone around him busts their chops to try to stop it happening.
I feel guilty that our clever but determined to fail child is taking up so much of his teachers' time and energy and so, so resentful. The more we all try, and the more he metaphorically sticks two fingers up at us, the more I dislike him.
Has anyone else been through a GCSE year with a child like this, someone who can give me some tips for coping emotionally while watching helplessly as their child screws up?
Oh gosh, and we're supposed to be looking for colleges for him.... what sort of educational establishment wants to offer a place to a child who's got such a poor school record and doesn't seem inclined to change?
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16 year old ds determined to screw up educationally - school won't let it go
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mizzscarlett · 10/09/2014 12:30
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