I have one child, a 19yo daughter and when she was 13 her stepfather, whom she adored, was killed in a motorcycle accident. Her biological father and I split up when she was 5 (and he no longer bothers to see her) and I married again when she was 9. Three years ago I met, and last year married, another wonderful man. He bends over backwards to do what he can for her ( he is unable to have children of his own so no step-siblings about) but lately she is being really awful towards him. She doesn't bother speaking to him much, hardly gives him the time of day really. If he speaks to her she replies but that's it. We have moved to a beautiful big house which has room for her 2 horses which we have never had before but everything in her life is 'shit'. She left school at 17 as she didn't want to study so she did hairdresser training, She has almost qualified but everything is 'shit'. Work, home, (even me sometimes) everything. We bought her a car when she was 17, paid for a years insurance and a dozen driving lessons but as she simply will NOT sit and look at her highway code book she has failed her theory test twice so now the car sits on the drive gathering dust. I just don't know what to do with her. I try to imagine how I would feel if my own dad didn't want me and the man I thought of as dad was killed, it would be dreadful - but I have been as sensitive as I possible could, introduced her to my new man slowly and asked her how she felt about us getting married and she seemed fine. It's really the last 6 months that she has changed and I don't know how to handle the situation. She says she wants to leave home but she cannot afford it, she is only on apprentice wages and actually - I don't want her to. Has anyone got any suggestions on what to do please? Please don't say throw her out because I will not do that, I just want to restore harmony to the household.
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