Anyone any ideas? As I'm worn out. Our 17yr old ds left school last year is not in any training or employment. He passed 7 GCSE's but not his English. He stays out late every night, has got involved with others smoking, driving cars etc. He can't drive yet. I swear he has a form of an ASD but has never been tested, doctor says "he's a lad he'll grow out of it" but I've been concerned for 7 yrs now. He gets scared easily and is so naive he'll get into serious trouble. The police have got to know him but not for anything bad. He hates others fighting and panics when things start to turn bad and walks away but when he's at home he just wants lifts, food, money, clean clothes. No matter what I've said nothing has worked, nothing has got through to his head about how we're feeling and we've pleaded with him to go to college but he seems to think he's all the time in the world. He doesn't grasp the situation he's in and storms off when I start giving him lectures. I lay awake at night until he comes in. I'm worried sick this will end badly.
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