Sex on school residential trip. Yr10.

(88 Posts)
Branch Sat 08-Mar-14 17:19:38

After lights out, two boys went to a room where 3 girls were sharing and had sex with two of the girls. The third girl left the room beforehand and went into another girls' room.

School have found out & suspended all 4 students.

SugarMouse1 Fri 14-Mar-14 18:46:49

Why was the third girl suspended? That's ridiculous.

Incidentally, when I went on a school trip at 14, the staff locked everyone in their rooms with a key from the outside, so there was no chance for any shenanigans. Alternatively, the girls and boys could stay at separate hotels/hostels.

Slapperati Fri 14-Mar-14 19:41:58

Sugar - serious fire risk that!

Tullahulla Fri 14-Mar-14 19:48:07

Never slag off other teens, you don't know how your own are going to turn out, or indeed what they may be upto themselves.

sami1985 Fri 14-Mar-14 21:31:11

I was active at 14 with strong sexual feelings at 13. I had sex because I wanted too and felt ready, there was no pressure. Looking back I wasn't emotionally ready, but physically I was. I also wasn't ready to be a mum, but I haven't done too bad 13 years later lol.

Ludways Fri 14-Mar-14 21:37:23

I used to go away with groups of 14/15 year olds several times a year when I was that age, 30 years ago. There was plenty of sex amongst a small few and there's absolutely nothing the chaperones could've done about it. Even when there were chaperones sitting at the end of the corridors we'd find ways of distracting them and getting out of our rooms. I wasn't one of those having sex but I was def one getting into plenty of mischief, lol

Maryz Fri 14-Mar-14 21:52:34

Something similar happened in a school near me.

It will be interesting to see what the outcome is - in the case I know about the boys were expelled, the girls offered counselling. Which I was a bit hmm about.

Maryz Fri 14-Mar-14 21:54:05

And what Tullahulla said grin

The number of times I have nodded and hmm'ed as parents give out yards about "other people's teenagers", blissfully unaware what their own are up to [sigh]

I too feel sorry for the teachers. And I would be fucking furious with any of the kids if they were mine - surely they could find a better time and place to have sex than on a school trip.

cory Sat 15-Mar-14 08:51:13

coming back to this thread, I have thought of a difference to the residential trips of a generation ago:

when my peers got drunk at the back of the bus or shagged each other in hotel rooms, nobody thought to blame the teachers or suggest that they should be holding the hands of their charges 24/7 to ensure that they didn't do...errrr...what teenagers do.

LittleBearPad Sat 15-Mar-14 09:00:19

Sugar mouse, only four kids have been suspended - two boys two girls.

TeenAndTween Sun 16-Mar-14 18:56:27

I feel really sorry for the teachers. They probably feel guilty even though it really is not their fault if 5 teenagers conspire to deliberately break one of the strongest rules there could possibly be on a school trip.

WooAGhostCat Sun 16-Mar-14 19:29:50

What a bloody weird thread!

Teenagers on a residential behave badly shock shock shock
Cats bum face Mum is sure her little darling is nothing but a perfect angel and passes judgement on others children.

Tale of every residential every time ever

FabBakerGirl Sun 16-Mar-14 19:39:12

How do you know such intimate details about it all?

I personally think it is sad that some teenagers feel pressured into having sex at such a young age. And it is illegal. Kids are in such a hurry to grow up.

flow4 Sun 16-Mar-14 20:01:26

My DS2 (14) is going on a mixed residential trip out at sea with 40+ other 14-17 year olds. They, and we parents, have all been told there would be 'serious consequences' if there was any physical contact, with the YP concerned bring put ashore at the nearest port and their parents needing to fetch them.

I'd be furious if a child of mine broke such a well-defined rule.

'Duty of care', incidentally, means that the adult(s) looking after your child have to take care of them as a reasonable parent would. None of us would be able to stop our own teenagers from shagging either, if they were determined enough.

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