Hi, my teenage boy is quite introverted but can hold a good adult conversation if he has to. He spends most of his free time on his computer (downstairs in a room next to lounge) and although he hates school has a good brain and has achieved some good results. He was always a fussy eater but I tried to ignore it when he was a baby so as not to make an issue etc. He's quite small for his age and always wondered about this....his sister was the opposite. Lately (past 6 months) I've noticed he will dash upstairs from the computer for 15-20 min at a time. It's as if he's running to the loo or running off to do teenage boy things, hahaa, but he never says. I ask if everything is ok and he just says yes. ANYWAY, the latest thing is he now doesn't want to eat with me and his sister and says he wants/needs to eat in private. When I probed further he says he doesn't want to eat in front of people and hates people eating in front of him. Having said that he usually eats the meal when he goes off on his own. I've been allowing him to do it so far because I didn't want to make it a big deal. However, I'm now wondering if I'm just enabling him to have some sort of phobia. It's creating tension as I don't understand this 'private' eating thing. Any thoughts or ideas greatly appreciated.
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