Me and my DD1 dad have been split up since she was 2 years old but we had always told her we just didn't love each over anymore. In fact I had an affair - something I'm not proud of. I marry the man I had the affair with and we have a 7year old child together - her sister . My ex had gotten cross and told my DD1 about the affair and now she's refusing to speak to me . I don't know what to do .