DS(16) has shaved off all of his pubic hair!!

(52 Posts)

Not sure if im more annoyed that he left it all in the bath and I had to make him go back and clean it up, or that hes potentially having casual sex.

He denies being in a relationship or having sex but yet why would you? actually quite frustrating as I can never get him to have a proper bloody wash or wash his hair, shave his face but yet he randomly does this!

Not sure that I need advice just needed to rant smile

Did you ask him why? confused

AmberLeaf Tue 22-Oct-13 14:08:33

Maybe he has heard the rumour that shaving your pubes makes your Dinkle look bigger?

CallMeNancy Tue 22-Oct-13 14:09:26

^ amber smile

evertonmint Tue 22-Oct-13 14:10:06

That's going to itch when it grows back! grin

DS is 14 please say this isn't what I can look forward to.

DaddyPigsMistress Tue 22-Oct-13 14:10:39

He will regret it when the regrowth itch kick in

<cackles>

NellysKnickers Tue 22-Oct-13 14:10:46

Oooh that will itch when growing back grin

NellysKnickers Tue 22-Oct-13 14:11:29

Cross post Everton!

Please advise him on the importance of exfoliation to prevent ingrowing hairs!!!

olathelawyer05 Tue 22-Oct-13 14:12:05

Not much you can do about the casual sex if its happening....that is very funny though.

CallMeNancy Tue 22-Oct-13 14:13:46

If he is having sex, it will be like Velcro in about 3 days. Wait til he's stuck, then you'll get to meet her smile

fieldfare Tue 22-Oct-13 14:15:17

Ooh that's going to itch!

Get him some condoms just in case.

dyslexicdespot Tue 22-Oct-13 14:16:22

Well, it is his to shave, and he is old enough to have a sex life without your approval. However, leaving pubic hair in the bath is completely out of order.

MrsBennetsEldest Tue 22-Oct-13 14:22:04

Mine have all done/ do it. I don't see the connection with casual sex though. Experimentation and good old curiosity. It's a pain when they are all over the bath and loo though, I just shout ' who's been doing their pubes again' a voice will answer ' me' followed by ' sorry, I forgot ' .
It's his body Op.

Damnautocorrect Tue 22-Oct-13 14:24:30

I just think it's the 'done' thing now for both sexes. It might not be full blown sex, just snogs and gropes

Book him in for a wax op

specialsubject Tue 22-Oct-13 14:31:20

I wondered how you knew!

just tell him that you don't care if he does this, AS LONG AS HE CLEARS UP AFTERWARDS.

hopefully he'll find better things to do with his time.

FuckyNellItsHalloween Tue 22-Oct-13 14:40:04

thlgrin mrs

SheldonsMeeMaw Tue 22-Oct-13 14:45:50

Maybe it was just a quick tidy up rather than whipping off the whole lot? grin

If he is 16, he is old enough to have sex, whether casual or not. Instead of hoping that he isn't, perhaps you could have a chat with him and get him some condoms.

doormat Tue 22-Oct-13 14:51:43

agree with fibberty take him to a fpc and get some rubbers ..x

anon2013 Tue 22-Oct-13 14:53:28

Maybe he's seen what guys are like in porn and copying that?

ShatnersEmptyCatacomb Tue 22-Oct-13 14:59:58

I bet he's mortified! He won't leave his detritus next time at least.

I'd bet it's down to the devil making work for idle hands more than casual sex.

Bumbolina Tue 22-Oct-13 15:05:16

According to my Mum, my Uncle once shaved all his off when he got crabs (this is going back approx 40 years).... maybe???

I don't think it was a trim as the bath was covered. Tonnes of it. Bath hadn't emptied as it had blocked the plug hole!!!

He won't discuss sex at all. For all his want to be treated as an adult hes definitely a young 16yr old. His birthday is July. When condoms were offered and told to use tgem regardless of what anyone says about pill etc made a point of them being for protection from std and not just unwanted pregnancy. He told me I was disgusting for it? This was only a few weeks ago.

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