My best friend wants to 'lend' his house to his 16-year-old daughter and her mate. They're at sixth form college in his town so his place is handier than her mum's place. He's away most of the time staying at his girlfriend's who lives 2 hours away.
Both me and his gf think its a terrible idea. His DD is intelligent enough and can cook for herself etc but she can also be a bit silly - the police were called to her mum's house recently when she was home alone and she had lads round having a wild party. He also suspects she is experimenting with cannabis. It won't be his home anymore to just crash when he needs - it will be overrun with teenagers. Also he has a younger son and it's 'his' home too. And what if he splits up with his gf and needs the house back? It's quite a small place - 1 living room, 1 bathroom, 2 bedrooms - so if he needed to move back in it would be tight.
Of course the DD and mate think it's a done deal and are planning the decor!
He told me to ask mumsnet what they think so is there anyone who has done this kind of thing and how did it work out?
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Friend wants to lend his house to 16yo DD - is this a bad idea?
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furfoxsake · 10/09/2013 09:03
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