Thanks, yes counselling in pipeline via CAMHS. Will look a young minds again. Contacted them once before. I don't know what it's diagnosed as because dd has been to all the appointments on her own so I only know what she tells me. Awful situation.
Have they described it as emerging BPD? I ask as due to the nature of the teenage brain/emotional development, some psychiatrists will wait til 18 or older to give this diagnosis. Either way, she may be offered therapy (DBT) by CAMHS which can help her deaL with her feelings and be less impulsive. They might also offer some family therapy.
There are threads from adults in Mental Health about this. Not that many, but there is currently a support thread going. Soem of them might have experience of BPD with teens. I thik one or two of them had it in their teens if I remember correctly.
There is also a thread in MH started by GracieLoo. And there is a link I put on there that you might find useful.