I don't usually post in this section but could use some of your advice, thoughts please. I have a dd15 she will be 16 in a couple of weeks, by sgo. Which isn't relevant she's lived with me for years, other than she experienced severe abuse when younger which led to her being placed with me. She is lovely a grade A student polite, respectful dotes on her younger brothers etc. helps around the house.... She has a sweet boyfriend, has had for several months all very innocent, he is often here they send most of the time playing in the garden with ds! We are very close and open with each other and she has had years of counselling to help her deal with the abuse, she s doing great but due to this I know they have done little more than kiss yet which she tells me her boyfriend is fine with.
She has asked if once she turns 16 her boyfriend can stay over she would like to explore their physical relationship in a safe place, her words not mine. He has turned 16 and she is on the pill for heavy periods though we have had the safe sex talk many times.
I was all ready to agree once she has turned 16 but now my mum who s generally great thinks it is a mistake and they are too young. His parents would be fine by the way so long as it is with me.
Wow that long sorry but didn't want to drip feed. So I thought I'd ask on here to see is this a good idea or not? I just don't want her to feel she has to go elsewhere and rush or feel unsafe.
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Mama1980 · 12/07/2013 13:58
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