Hi, my eldest, 14 yr old DD is complaining of pains in her chest.I took her to the A&E the other month as she was crying she said it hurt so much.We were up there about 6 hrs in total and she was seen by 4 different Drs.They took a urine sample(fine) did examination(fine) temp was fine.They did an ECG and some other test all came back fine.She is saying it feels like a heaviness in her chest it's not her heart it's in her chest area but she obviously feels it's her heart and I guess it still could be? She was getting palpitations and was feeling sweaty.One Dr said it could be caffeine causing the palpitations so we cut out the coffee (1 weak cup in the morning on getting up, she doesn't touch fizzy drinks) and the palpitations have stopped.
The Drs (well, 2 of them) seem to think it is anxiety/stress related) and I think it is also. One of the Drs thought it could be dietary, like an acid reflux type thing? She is very slim, active, a fast runner, quite good at athletes but she is pale, one of her nicknames used to be Casper. She doesn't eat a fantastic diet so I guess it could be that.Sometimes she skips meals, I don't think she is concerned about her weight but she does have a friend who has just been diagnosed with an eating disorder and is being treated for depression.
At the hospital, we came away none the wiser really, they just gave us a letter for our GP to go and see him if we felt it was not getting any better to be wired up for a day and get a complete days reading of her heartbeat to see if there were any irregularities.I think we will have to go back and get this done in the 1st instance but I was just coming on here to see if anyone has had anything similiar with their children round about this age and what it was.
I'm scared if I'm honest of what it could be and I know I should take her it's just that I know that she will give the Dr wooly answers just like she did at the hospital which won't help but she really does find it hard to describe.She had it at the hospital, this pain when she was talking to the Drs and they were asking her to score it out of 10 and she was saying about a 6 or 7 and they were taking her pulse and temp and looking at her well, like they didn't believe her.
She is doing really well at school she is on track to get all A*'s .She puts a lot of pressure on herself, she wants to do well, for herself, she is finally seeing the importance of education.She had an awful yr 7 and most of yr 8, she got in with the wrong group of girls, her behaviour went off the rails, she was excluded for a week, she was being bullied , she was forever on some kind of report or other, I was always up the school.It was a very stressfull time for us all.Now she has been able to distance herself from most of that, being in the top sets has given her that freedom.It's a pretty rough school.
Her Science teacher pretty much washed his hands off her in Yr 7 after she did so badly, now he can't sing her praises highly enough.We are just so proud of her because she has got to where she is through persistance and sheer hard work.She has a mum and dad at home and a younger brother.She has friends, she is not being bullied(I think) She does go on Tumblr and that Ask? is it site.She used to go on FB a lot and get into all kinds of arguments on there but she has matured a lot.I went back to work last Sept, full-time.I'm a teacher so work long hours.I am wracked with guilt that I am not there in the mornings when she leaves for school or after school.
She says she has felt like this since about January but she can't be more specific, she can't think of anything which might have triggered it.She thinks she has GAD, she googles things a lot.I don't know, I think it could be anxiety.She says she's fine when she's busy, but she says she can't read anymore or watch a film her chest starts hurting too much.I will take her to the Drs this week(I can't ever get to phone or make an appointment because of my teaching and I can't take time out)
I'm sorry this is so long, does anyone have any experience of this?
TIA x
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lostinteaching47 · 24/03/2013 09:51
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