DD (15) has just asked me if she can go to a concert tonight. She is generally very good, works hard in school and outside activities. She has always been a little quiet and shy so we have always encouraged her to make friends and do things with them.
She wants to go to a concert, in Cardiff, which is about an hour's drive from us, with a boy from school. They have been in a group of friends for a while, but we have not met him or his parents. He was supposed to be going to the concert with a friend, who is ill and has dropped out. His dad will take them and bring them back.
She says they are not boyfriend/girlfriend, just friends. He was going out with one of her friends until very recently.
She has met his parents at a school function and says they are lovely.
I trust her, and do not think she is lying at all, and trust her to behave sensibly when there (no drink, drugs etc), but I don't know him or his family at all. Would I be completely mad to allow her to go? Also, she has to be up early for school tomorrow. I don't know the times yet, she is going to find out and let me know. I know DH will just say 'no', so it's down to me to be fair, and if I say she should go, I know I can convince him to let her go. He's just a very protective dad, and doesn't really want her leaving the house at all, especially with a boy!
I also worry about who else will be there. Will it be much older people, or other teenagers? What happens when they leave the concert to meet his parents? What if they get lost, separated etc?
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Primrose123 · 10/03/2013 13:48
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