I thought they were way older 15 is nothing older boys are attractive don't sweat it she is at an age where she is wanting a bit of privacy and probably doesn't want you knowing she is texting boys, I would do a curfew dd2 is 15 and has 1 especially on a school night and I also turn the wifi off,
Im impressed you managed to prise the phone off her for a nosey I would keep checiking it from time to time but it really is nothing, all I have said is hindsight right enough I was a neurotic wreck with dd1 and always worried about everything she is nearly 20 but I did check her phone sometimes, I had to get dd2 to delete a guy off her facebook. apparently he is a friend of a friend but he is 23 no way was I having that
Is it just me who thinks it's not ok to look at someone else's messages as a matter of routine? If I really felt I couldn't trust my dcs and felt I had to look at their messages, I would tell them I was going to and explain why.
I'm with someoftheabove although I understand why are you worried I just don't think I would have gone through my DC's phones without having serious cause for concern and them knowing about it. Snooping doesn't tend to bring good news.
The issue of respecting teenagers' privacy is so tricky nowadays. When we were that age we didn't have the option of all this privacy - no facebook or mobiles. My mum always knew who I was hanging about with.