He has been going to see an orthodntist for more than a year now, and today they discharged him - he's not getting a brace as he won't clean his teeth properly. His teeth are really crooked and affect how he eats, but he doesn't give a fuck, he just laughed at the dentist apparently when he said his teeth weren't good enough. We even get him disclosing tablets, but he won't let us see how bad it is he gets stroppy and starts hding his face if we try to see.
There are arguments every day about it. he won't wash his hair or his face either. His hair is greasy and causes spots on his forehead and he ahs lots of spots and blackheads all over his face.
DH bought him a scrub thing for teenagers and he won't use it "I don't like water on my face". We got him facial wipes. He winds it round his finger and dabs at his face. "I don't like the feel of it on my skin"
He goes for a shower and moves the shower head so his hair doesn't get wet "you didn't tell me to wash it" is his response if we ask why it's not washed.
He only puts deodorant on if we tell him to "You didn't tell me to put some on" is a favourite expression. He has started running himself baths, and we (dh and I) think it's so he can get out of washing his hair
he is nearly 15 and I despair of him. part of me wants to give him a bloody good scrub, the other part wants to say "be stinky then"".
I could really do with some advice as I get so wound up by this
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Saltire · 28/01/2013 13:55
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