Can't you find an underage night at a local nightclub and pay for her and a select number of friends to go. Obviously you would drop them off and pick them up. I remember doing this when I was 16 and our underage night started from age 13.
my 15 year old super darling awesome daughter said that if you arnt even considering the disco you need to let her know because she WILL have her hopes up. if you are considering it, tell her what her max guest # can be, if she disagrees, tell her sucks and she can work around it. other ideas; if there is a themed park/ amusement park, a day there with a handful of friends, if she has a boyfriend or bestfriend, ask them what she has been talking about wanting.. tey will know exactly what she wants.
Hi dd will be 14- she says that she wants a dance type of night - what i wd call a disco !! she has a bout 15 pals to invite.im not sure that it wd work that number and a dj in a hall.has anyone had a good party like this,or any experince of a teen party/suggestions .not intrested re sleepover .help its v soon!!!!!thanks.