Admittedly, I do not think I am bu, but this forum gets a lot of traffic and I just want as many people to read this as possible.
Presently, there is an increasing trend in young girls (as young as 12) sending inappropriate pictures of themselves to (equally as young) boys using mobile phones. In certain cases girls are succumbing to pressure from a boy that they like without really thinking about the consequences of sending the pictures. The pictures can be passed on and uploaded publicly in an instant. In certain cases, young boys who are asking for such pictures and applying emotional pressure to the young girls. In many cases boys are doing so in order to appear 'cool' but are not actually realising how predatory there actions can seem to an outsider. My concern is that popular public figures are having sex tapes leaked and only seeing there popularity increase, and that tv shows aimed at teenagers are glamorising 'sexy texting' making it seem like a 'normal' or 'gown up' thing to do.
Many parents will admit to be less technically savvy than their kids, which is why I am posting this. There is a real need for a conversation between parent and child regarding the emotional side of a relationship and respecting themselves when it comes to sex. I know most parents will know this, but often it is a conversation that is required much younger than you might realise. Often the children involved in this are not children who even realise that this pictures constitute sexual activity, but when it goes wrong, the emotional fall out is devastating.
I am certain that most schools will aim to tackle this issue in sex education. However, I think it is important for parents to be aware of this growing trend. I have attached a link to a good article below, and the CEOP video 'Think you know' on youtube is very good too.
Thank you for indulging me, I hope I do not get flamed, I cant go into the reasons that have prompted this post but I just feel like I need to say something in case other parents arent aware.
www.insidetheschool.com/articles/the-teen-sexting-problem-and-what-schools-can-do-about-it/
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To think every parent should educate themselves about 'sexting'
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