Ds is 14, always been forgetful and a bit negative but in the last week, he's lost English book, which means he head to buy new one out of his pocket money -£8, maths book that he's replaced at 50p and got a detention for. Has to get public transport home and oay fir it himself. Forgot his swimming kit today and just shrugs his shoulders when I realise when it's too late.
He says he's struggling with maths with new teacher this term so a friend if mine has lent him her child's passwords to a £15 per month maths website and I've offered to help him but he moaned and complained when I suggested doing it more than once! I ask him how he thinks he can be more responsible and his answers are always that everyone else is better than him and there's no point trying anything because he always fails :(
He's above average ability in school but does the bare minimum and takes no pride in anything. He just wants to sit on pc all the time looking at you tube. :(
My step daughter moved in a few months ago and I am having some big ussues with adjusting so I'm sure ds is too.
How do I deal with this? I can't seem to make him care about his own life.
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theredhen · 11/10/2012 09:28
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