My ds2 (17) is 6 ft and 15 stone. He has always been quite a "big lad", but is also pretty sporty, fit and super strong (would be great at rugby if he played!).
I wasn't sure exactly how much he weighed, but was a bit shocked to see (on height/weight charts) that's he's about 2 stone overweight. He does look like he needs to lose a few pounds - arse hangs out of his drop-downs etc!
He eats alot (especially cereal!), and eats way too quickly. I have spoken to him on quite a few occassions about "being careful" and try not to keep naughty food at home and don't load his plate full of food for his dinner. However, he earns his own money and can eat what he wants when I'm not around. He also drinks quite a lot of beer on the weekends (about 4/5 bottles I think) which is, of course, full of calories.
He is quite a stroppy/hormonal lad and I choose my battles with him carefully.
I'm not sure whether to nag again or just let him get on with it. He's nearly an adult now and can choose whether to be overweight. He plays footie with his mates alot during the week and he's joining the gym soon for the summer hols. I keep convincing myself that he's still growing and needs lots of calories so as not to cause arguments when I see him scoffing down another bowl of museli!
To nag or not to nag?
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Overweight son - should I nag?
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Parttimeslave · 16/07/2012 10:38
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