I am a single parent who shares the care of our 12 year old (almost 13) daughter with my exh.
The situation at present is so difficult and i don't know what to do. If our daughter doesn't like what's happening at one house then she moves to the other parents.
Currently she moved out from my house a week ago and is refusing to come home. This was prompted by my trying to get her revise for her exams.
She moved back to her Dad's and was nice to me for a period of time as she wanted me to agree to her mobile being topped up. I agreed and she is now "punishing" me by refusing to see me
I am so worried that she is going to permanently be going from home to home when it suits her. Her Dad is willing to put up with this behaviour and will go out of his way to make arrangements for her to stay at his house with his girlfriend rather than tell our daughter that she needs to come home.
I think that I need to stop my daughter doing this but don't know how to. Am tempted to say that I will see her on set days (if she wants to) but not just have an open door policy to her. This makes me feel dreadful but I do think that she desperately needs some sort of guidance
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wirral · 25/06/2012 11:45
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