Hi,
This is a bit of an unusual subject, my son does not live with me, he lives with his other parent, please don't judge me as I'm a Mum, it's not always Dad's.
A brief overview is that I was not in my son's life for a very long time due to very difficult circumstances.
I recently started a relationship with my son, I didn't expect it to be easy, and it hasn't been.
That aside my son's behaviour has been getting increasingly worse to the point he has been expelled, arrested, been violent towards his father, other children, has been stealing, committing other crime and now has been thrown out of home by Dad. Paternal Grandparents won't help, and because I live in a house share and have lack of resources I can not immediately take him.
I would like to take him in the long term, but fear I can not do it with out the support of social services due to the number of issues he has, and the lack of support I have.
Before you judge there are a lot of complicating matters, to do with my son and myself that are not too straight forward. It is not a case that I dumped him on his Dad because I didn't want to be a Mum, I was a young teen with no family from care, and had a nervous breakdown.
Events that followed meant my son's Dad made it impossible for me to see him for 8 years.
I have no family, a limited network and don't know what to do.
My son is currently staying with a friend, I don't know who they are or what he is doing.
What I do know is that he is a serious risk to himself and others, Social Services are not being very helpful, and I don't know where else to turn for advice.
Any advice on what I can do to help would be appreciated.
Currently waiting for a social worker to speak to Dad to re-confirm that he is not willing to care for our son, I don't know what to do and am at my wits end.
Dad doesn't speak to me, only through email.
Once again, and helpful advice would much be appreciated.
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Missjt · 11/04/2012 17:03
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