Hello,
This is my first post here and I apologise for the naïveté of this question, but I'd appreciate advice and ideas from those of you with more experience of teenagers.
DS is 14.5 (and well into puberty) and so far I feel we've had a smooth ride; not totally bump free but nothing we haven't dealt with to our satisfaction as it's arisen. I consider him to be (reasonably) responsible and trustworthy for his age and stage, but I'm well aware (and a little alarmed) that all this may change in future, although of course I'm hoping for plain sailing....
So far he's not been very adventurous socially (he goes to a Boys' grammar, so girls haven't been an issue yet) and has tended to meet up with friends whose parents I know quite well ie I've been able to keep tabs on what he's up to especially as (geographically) they've often needed parental transport. However, he's now spreading his wings and making independent arrangements with other friends and I'm pleased about this, but it has raised the need for us to review our ground rules about keeping in touch, home-times etc. with the hopeful aim that it will stand us in good stead when he starts going out in the evenings/ seeing girls etc
So my very naive question is to ask what approaches you have taken: what your rules were, how you enforced them, any sanctions, did it work long term etc. I appreciate it's an "every case is different" thing, and that like all stages of parenting just when you think you've got it sussed everything changes!! (I'm really hoping that by the time we get to DD2 we will have it "sussed" cos she's a real challenge even aged 5! but I won't hold my breath)
Thank you in advance!
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Peggydoll · 06/04/2012 18:41
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