This is no where near as serious as most of the other threads on here, but we're stuck and thought there might be some teen experts on this board [fingers crossed!]
dd1 is 13 and is bloody hard work :( she argues back constantly and ignores all requests made of her. Nothing is ever her fault and she has a major attack of drama queen-itis on top for good measure.
Pretty much every time we ask her to do something she answers to the effect that she doesn't see why she should have to do that. Things like picking up her clothes from the stairs and eating dinner (any dinner, not all of it, or something she doesn't like - just some food!) she has an answer for everything, and it's never the same answer as ours :(
It's hard to explain how frustrating this is. I know she's not happy but she just cannot seem to understand that she needs to comply with house rules - basically that if she's asked to do something, she tries to do it!
We're not expecting perfect behaviour all the time, but being civil to everyone in the house most of the time and not arguing back would be a good start.
We've had CAHMS support in the past (ended 2+ years ago) as she was shoplifting and stealing at school (that has stopped now). To be honest although it helped at the time, I'm not sure it would help again. It was rather wishy washy and she was quite agreeable then! she's always fine for everyone else - school is good, family members find her reasonable and fairly polite - it's just at home she's a different person.
Any suggestions?
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how do you deal with a teen that argues back at every request?
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bumpybecky · 31/03/2012 20:06
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