i really am at my wits end. My 16yr old daughter has been seeing a boy for 2 yrs, and he is ruining our family! He has been kicked out of 3 schools (drugs, insolence, not keeping to school rules), he has been blatently rude to me, and frequently upsets my daughter. I also have reason to believe he has involved her in smoking marujana. My daughter is a very bright, talented girl studying AS levels at college, and he is currently labouring on a building site. He totally ruined Mothers Day yesterday by upsetting her via a phone call, and reducing her to tears, which spoilt the day for me. I am so worried, not only for my daughter's sanity, safety (re the drugs) and happiness, but also that he is distracting her from her studies and affecting her future chances of uni. She has already announced she doesnt want to go to uni outside London, or go to our holiday hole this summer. He is from a good family-but they seem to have washed their hands from him. I feel at such a loss as to know what to do; I've tried talking to her to suggest she needs to get rid as he is ruining her happiness, limiting who she can and can't socialise with at college and affecting our family dynamics (she's an only child). This just results in screaming, shouting and tears. Apparently she loves him, and he is 'good' for her. Help please! How would you handle it????
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Mar65 · 19/03/2012 08:24
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