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No more teenagers.

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mumeeee · 12/01/2012 14:58

DD3 was 20 on Tuesday. So I no longer have any teenagers. Although because of her learning difficulties she still acts like a 15 year old. She's now looking at universities so I may not have any children at home soon.

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mumeeee · 12/01/2012 15:20

In case anyone's wondering why I'm still called mumeee. I did try to change it but for some reason I wasn't able to.

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percysgirl · 12/01/2012 16:41


No Teenagers - you are a survivor Wine xx
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mrsjay · 12/01/2012 16:47

wow what a trooper im envious i really am , what does it feel like ? i have 1 who is 19 soon and another who is 14 sooner and im exhausted with it allShock dd1 is worse than d2 still , but never mind WELL DONE YOU Grin

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ragged · 12/01/2012 17:30

Sigh, Lucky you. Some of us don't even start teenage era until 2013, and then we'll have 16 years of it!!!

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WelshCerys · 12/01/2012 18:45

You're still DD's mumeeee! You always will be! 20 is just a number!

One of my DSs was also 20 a few days ago. Still my kid, yes, grown up (ish) and all that, but honestly the same lad he always just, just taller, older (obviously) and a mite more mature.

(The further education thread under Education has lots of supportive posts about empty nests and, more practically, uni application etc etc stuff - worth looking at if you don't know it.)

Happy Birthday to your DD!

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Sevenfold · 12/01/2012 18:49

my oldest is nearly not a teen....
but he will still be my baby

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Milliways · 12/01/2012 21:01

My DD is 21 tomorrow! DS is 16, but he has never been any trouble as a Teen so we have escaped very lightly (just have DD's wedding to plan!)

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MedusaIsHavingABadHairDay · 12/01/2012 22:32

My eldest is 20 this month ( others are 14,17,18) and it actually makes me tear up thinking about it.. she isn't a child anymore! But she will always be my baby and I will always be Mum, so it's all ok:)

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mumeeee · 13/01/2012 23:07

I know I'm still DD3's Mumeeee. But she is beginning to need me less which is a good thing. My eldest will be 25 in April so I've had teenagers for about a 11 and a half years. which is quite a long time. Some of it's been hard but there have also been dun times. They have made me both cry and laugh over all those years. I feel sad bur also glad my children are growing up.

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mrsjay · 14/01/2012 14:17

nearly 12 years of teenagers you deserve a medal or Wine Grin I like they are growing up but it sort of leaves a gap IYSWIM today dd1 is working and dd2 is in town so im sort of milling about on here , I considering a dog now , so i can pander and fuss over something ,

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mrsjay · 14/01/2012 14:18

I am*

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mumeeee · 14/01/2012 14:53

Well DD3's at home. So I can try to fuss over her but she doesn't let me [grin. She went off to do her voluntary job this morning and is now probably IB town with a friend but I don't really know. She'll text me sometime to let me know what's happening. I'm finally less stressed about that sort of thing then I used to be. Can't get a dog as I work odd hours and DH is often working late.

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larry5 · 14/01/2012 15:49

Mt dd will be 20 in July and she will still be my baby. Her 2 dss are 37 and 35 and I try not to admit to having children of that age. She has made me feel young but I know I am not as I am 60 next month. Don't know where the time went. I don't feel a day over 58!

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