I am so mad I could just go through and scream obscenities at him but I've come here instead, so apologies!!
Homework: bare minimum
Eating: can't be bothered generally (unless it's sweets or pizza)
music practice: you must be joking
sport: not on your life
I've just had another argument about homework. I know that at his age he's expected to do just that little bit more and he refuses to do anything other than what he's told (if he actually listens to what the homework is, which I doubt, and he certainly doesn't write it in his homework diary) - with the result he's done pretty dismally in the last few tests he's had. He's not bothered though and tells me the results without a care in the world.
He's always been a bit of a fussy eater, but the last couple of years he's got worse instead of better and now huffs and puffs at dinner time with big sighs as if he's being asked to run a marathon. Often doesn't finish and just sits picking at his food.
How on earth do you deal with teenage slothdom?? He's just turned 13. He does have friends but they generally just sit about playing computer games. He's restricted here but then just goes to his friends' houses and plays there. Not THAT often, only a couple of times a week, but more at weekends.
I can only see that either I argue with him on a daily basis for the next 5 years and we end up hating each other.... or I let him be, and watch him spectacularly underachieve.
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His attitude f****** stinks!!! Aaaghh!!
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fartmeistergeneral · 03/11/2011 18:17
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