We have full care of DN (child of DP's sister). Last night he made a big deal out of not wanting to show me his homework. He had told me it was researching the voiceovers of the Simpsons. Then he denied having said this and said it was just researching the programme. He showed me the hwk and it was just ten or so bullet points about the programme, who did the voices for each actor, etc. The first thing that came out of my mouth (bear in mind I've only been parenting a teen for 8 months) is this is cut and paste because the words used were not at all natural. He went completely mad and starting swearing at me. Stormed off to his room effing and blinding. I had another look at the homework and although it's very like something off the internet I'm no longer sure. He may well have done it himself. I talked to him and said that I shouldn't have said it was lifted and I was sorry for that but that it wasn't a good enough piece of work, did not show any analysis plus much more importantly I would not be sworn at. I told him he wasn't having his dinner (his grandpa came over and took him out for massive burger king at 5pm, and he came home with eclairs so he couldn't have been starving). He stormed back into the kitchen and started going through the fridge and I told him he wasn't taking anything from the fridge. More rudeness and swearing. DP and I went in to talk to him and he just said I was l lying, he hadn't sworn at me and cried and sobbed into his duvet. This morning I see he raided the fridge anyway after we had gone to bed. I've also had a big row with DP because he always sets loads of rules from DN and then can't be bothered to enforce them.
I basically feel like shit this morning and want to run away from the lot of them. I don't want to see DN although I know this is silly and I'm the adult.
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Mamateur · 06/07/2011 06:35
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