very odd phone bill not happy!!

[martimam]

what a way to start the day. This morning my phone bill came in the post apparently I owe them an extra £45 pounds hmm strange.anyway do a bit off digging and find an 0909 number. Who could that be I thought, turns out to be those lovely girls from babestation you know the late night sex line slappers. Well im a single mum with two daughters one 16 and one nearly 11 and a lovely darling 14 year old boy. Quite obvious that during the night hes been sneaking down to the front room calling these girls and evidently having a great time pulling his pud! I have no probs aslong as its done in private and not out of my pocket. Typicall bloke letting his willy control him not thinking ahead bless. Anywho what do I do, I havent said anything yet but need to approach him sometime. Please please please help what would you do?!?!?!

[martimam]

great start to the day. Phone bill came through saying I owe an extra £45 this month hmm strange. Dug a little deeper and found three calls to an 0909 number?? Turns out its them lovely girls at babestation you know the late night "chat" on sky. Who could that I thought. No hubby or bf im a single mum with two daughters of 10 and 16 .... oh and a darling 14 year old son hmmm. Obviously hes been sneaking down late a night for a quick fiddle. I know boys at 14 are horny and curios always and I dont care if he masturbates in private and at no cost to me. Typicall bloke thinking with his willy not thinking. Please please help what the hell woule you do!?!?!?!?!?

[martimam]

woops thought original didnt post sorry

[clutteredup]

I'm heading towards teenagers myself so lurking for tips but I'd leave the bill with a note saying ' will keep from allowance till paid back' and see how he responds - this is my typical wimpy non confrontational approach to life generally so waiting for someone to come along with beeter more useful advice on how to handle teenagers so I can stash it for later!

[martimam]

im trying to think off ways he can make the cash back already, ive got some hard tasks for the poor sole. Its just the chat about the whole sex, masturbating shite im not looking foward too

[Bohica]

How do you know it's your 14y old boy & not your 16y old daughter?

[GypsyMoth]

i thought the same Bohica!!

[martimam]

well i just highly doubt that

[Bohica]

Why?

Serious question. What makes it more likely to be your boy than your girl?

[slartybartfast]

i expect you can put some sort of bar on the phone

[Minx179]

You should be able to put call barring on your phone.

I would just come straight out with it. If s/he is old enough to be phoning sex chat lines they are old enough to realise there are costs involved, which mum doesn't appreciate paying for.

My teens are more embarrassed about the sex chats than we ever were .