I have mentioned now and again on some other people's threads that my DD has taken money from me quite frequently in the past. Within the last month she took £100 from me. the only reason I knew it was that I had taken exactly that amount from the bank and she stole the whole lot. I was embarrassed in a shop as when I went to pay with the money it had gone. I had started to lock my bag in my bedroom, but got a bit slack, I suppose, and hopeful. Anyway, big, big hooha at home, big upset, she said she wouldn't do it again, but i kept everything locked away anyway.
Well, this weekend she has stolen over £60 from my retired mother. My DM, DD and I went out yesterday afternoon and somehow my DD managed to take the money from my DM's purse. I confronted her, but she denied it (as usual). She came home from school today and I have found receipts for stuff that she has bought. Stupid stuff like jewellery from Primark, books from Waterstones and a couple of ear stretchers. She is still denying that she took the money. Again, big discussion at home. She accuses us of hating her. She hates us all. We don't care about her. We care more about DSs. She doesn't care about herself. Thinks she's worthless. (unfortunately, cynically, by now I'm thinking she's just saying this to get herself out of trouble.) She then says that she tooks 16 paracetomol last time to end everything. I do know that that's true as some paracetomol went missing, but she denied everything, as usual.
Upshot is, DH finally lost his temper with her and DS1, who were each goading the other. I have never in over 20 years seen him so angry. He went out for a walk. She has texted him saying she didn't take the fucking money. He's really worried about her and says I should take her to the doctor or a psychiatrist. I just don't know what to do. Does anyone have any advice for me, please.
I will be going to bed in a minute as it's been a very emotionally tiring evening, but I will be on again for a short time tomorrow morning and again tomorrow evening. I am grateful for anything anyone can say to me.
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