I have two kids, both boys with a two year gap. DS1 is 12 ans DS2 is 10. DS1 has always been an angel. He was always polite, way ahead of where he should be academically, teachers pet, sensible, warm hearted - pretty much a model son. DS2 was always a live wire, always in trouble at school, a little behind where he should be, complete opposite of DS1. Someone once said to me "the tables will turn, DS1 will go off the rails in his teens and DS2 will calm right down". I always thought "yeah right".
Anyway I think the unimaginable has happened.
DS1 started secondary school last september and his behaviour has slowly declined ever since. It started with sarcasm and the odd swear word which I could handle but about two weeks ago, he just changed completely, seemingly over night.
He's swearing constantly, winding up his little brother constantly, delibrately wears the wrong colour socks to school, has become indifferent to his homework (I said to him last week "if you don't do it, you'll get a detention" - this would have had him in tears a few months ago - he replied with "and?") and I heard he was involved in chucking popcorn in the cinema on tuesday with his friends. He would NEVER have done this before.
The two boys went to stay at their grandma's at the weekend and my mum said DS2 for once was a complete angel. I asked about DS1 and she just pulled a face and said "well, I suppose they're growing up at that age and testing boundries" so by the sounds of it, he'd been a pain in the arse there too.
Last night he was making so much noise until gone midnight. I shouted through the wall for him to be quiet as I was trying to sleep and I heard him mutter "soz hard". He then began whistling really loudly. This is NOT HIM.
Where has my angelic son gone?? I also noticed his school planner had been checked and there are 5 boxes the teachers can tick. Unsatisfactory, must improve - Satisfactory but could be better - Good - Outstanding ..... DS's was ticked at Satisfactory but could be better.
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12 Year old son just "turned" over night - I think I have experienced the Kevin syndrome
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Cellulose · 24/02/2011 07:56
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