OK I know at 17 my daughter is now an adult, but I need some advice and I can not find anywhere to ask
A few days ago, I was in my bedroom and opened my window a little for a few minutes to let some air in despite the cold, so I heard my daughter get home with her bf, or at least arrive at the top of the drive where the gate is
So glanced out and witnessed her bf treating her quiet roughly, he also called her a stupid bitch
I was shocked, although a little older then her he seemed charming and caring
My daughter is also down to earth and not in a million years expected her to stand to be treated this way - not sure if I should put details.
So I brought it up with her and she shrugged and said it was no big deal.
So I again brought it up with her a day later, I asked if he had treated her this way previously. She was reluctant to say much at first just shrugging and saying it is no big deal
but then she said something extraordinary, she said that she was happy the way he treats her and it was OK for him to loose his cool with her sometimes, as she puts it everyone does sometimes. She said she wanted guys to be men with her
Not really sure what to say to her
Any advice from anyone
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17 YO DD and BF treating her not so great
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ihelen · 06/01/2011 19:39
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