OK This is a strange one. My 15 year old daughter has become very body conscious in recent months. Basically she thinks she is over weight, she isn?t but she thinks she has some puppy fat and a potbelly. I have assured her she has nothing to worry about. The problem happened just before Christmas when my mother took her out shopping to buy a dress for Christmas. This would have been fine but she also took her to buy some underwear and for some unknown reason she bought her a pair of shaper knickers, the sort like bicycle shorts with long legs etc. Her reasoning was that my daughter liked the dress but didn?t like the way she looked in it so my she suggested some underwear to do the job (she referred to it as a girdle but she is 73). Now I don?t have a problem with this for a grown woman and I admit I do wear such things occasionally (more as I have got older!!). The issue is my daughter now wants to buy another pair and has started to wear the pair she has quite regularly. I thought the lingerie war I would have with my teenage daughter would be about gstrings etc so I?m perplexed and not really sure what to do. I just want her to he happy with her body and not think she has to force it into an elastic tube just yet. It has also led to a falling out with my mother over the whole issue with my daughter and mother painting me as being unreasonable. Ant suggestion would be a great help.
Emma
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Parenting teenagers has its ups and downs. Get advice from Mumsnetters here.
Teenagers
underwear and body issues
12 replies
emmamacca · 06/01/2011 16:25
OP posts:
maryz ·
12/01/2011 22:41
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
maryz ·
19/01/2011 21:22
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.