I have 2 teenage daughters aged 12 & 14, I am currently really struggling with my youngest. Everyday is a battle from the moment I wake her up (usually takes at least an hour to get her up for school), then she will plaster on the makeup and back comb her hair knowing that it is against school rules....when she comes home from school she will refuse point blank to eat meals at mealtimes because she wants to go out, her personal hygiene is poor and she has to be repeatedly asked to get a bath and wash her hair. Bedtime is a battle and she is not getting nearly enough sleep...she makes herself vomit by forcing a cough when she doesn't want to do something or wants to stay home from school which results in us having huge rows when I make her go to school anyway. I have tried reasoning with her, punishing her, shouting at her, talking calmly to her and today took her to my GP to ask for help & was simply told contact the school nurse. I will make an appointment with the school nurse but don't think it will help as my daughter has no respect for her. I am absolutely exhausted with the constant battles and really think I need some outside help before she gets totally out of hand. She cares nothing for what I say and if I lose my temper she will just scream and swear at me or say "What you gonna do about it" or "make me", "whatever" "do one". I really am at the end of my tether and can see her becoming more and more out of control by the day and I'm desperate to put a stop to it now before she gets worse and throws away her education etc. I would be extremely grateful for any advice or if anyone could point me in the direction of any outside agencies who could help. I was thinking of ringing Social services and seeing if they could offer me some support? Thanks in advance.
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