kinky or edgy clubwear for plus size

(85 Posts)
happyAvocado Thu 16-May-13 22:10:23

I'd like to shop in an online shop in UK
so far I've found
www.lovehoney.co.uk/lingerie/sexy-plus-size-18/clubwear-dresses/

but not such big choice there

unless you can recommend a good shop I can walk in somewhere in London/SE

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 22:29:44

How do you define kinky and edgy? What sorts of clothes?

isitsnowingyet Thu 16-May-13 22:32:52

Vairy tasteful clothing

MonkeyingAroundTown Thu 16-May-13 22:33:52

You want to wear these in the bedroom or for clubbing?

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 22:36:00

With edgy I thought you meant like, punk rock clothes.
Lol are you gonna wear this for clubbing? www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27310 Pfft

tethersend Thu 16-May-13 22:36:55

When you say 'club'... Do you mean suburban sex party?

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 22:38:19

clubwear is a well know euphemism for kinky clothing isn't it?

dress
skirt and jacket
another and jacket
dress
this with a corset

I've not bought from any of those places though so can't recommend them, as such.

tethersend Thu 16-May-13 22:39:27

Pahahahhhaa at "allowing you to choose to expose either your font or bottom" grin

Fonts are kinky.

AnAirOfHope Thu 16-May-13 22:40:52

Evens or Ann Havrey is your best bet.

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 22:43:16

"Add Nipple Chain Clamps £5.99" did make me titter grin

skirt and top

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 22:43:24

Why is all "kinky" clothing black and made of sweaty plastic? Is it OK to show up at one of those clubs in a crochet rainbow bikini instead for example?

AnAirOfHope Thu 16-May-13 22:46:58

Plastic is easy to wipe clean but they should do different colours.

(ignore my last post blush)

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 22:48:44

Easy to clean, yeeeeaaaah that's probably good...
www.crochetconcupiscence.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/crochet-swimsuit-motif.jpg <I hope this will become the new trend though, what do you think OP?

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 22:48:46

Hope - I saw some pink and red somewhere I think.

these shoes look quite comfy

BriansBrain Thu 16-May-13 22:55:33

I bought a lovely cream lace dress from Ann Summers once, totally see through.

You could book a party?

AnAirOfHope Thu 16-May-13 23:13:23

Do lovehoney do spray on pvc paint? You could paint your own outfit grin

Nermalkins Thu 16-May-13 23:19:23

It depends on what you're looking for. Latex clothing is fab. You can even buy it in topshop. I'm gonna out myself with but here go

Try companies like Libidex www.libidex.com/, skin two skin two clothingor lady lucie www.ladylucie.com/. to name but a few.

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 23:23:54

grin this must be sweaty to wear while jogging:
www.libidex.com/html/cart/prod.asp?rp=4&PID=783&CID=10050&SID=&pg=&item=
Or is it meant to be attractive...?

Sorry OP can't you come back and tell us exactly what you meant?

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 23:26:35

Oh those are much nicer Nermal, yes.

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 23:29:17

Strange that libidex calls their customers boys and girls. A bit childish. Also sad that there wasn't anything in the boy's dresses link.

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 23:31:53

some of those Lady Lucie things are phenomenal. No?

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 23:32:26

Very strange that, indeed.

Nagoo Thu 16-May-13 23:32:28

wow. That tracksuit is something I never thought I'd see.

Take talc into the changing room. I still get flashbacks to a bad time where my head stuck in purple latex. Manchester 1999.

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 23:33:44

So this is for men...
www.libidex.com/html/cart/prod.asp?PID=211&CID=10020&SID=2&pg=1&item=Boys+Libidex+Fantasy
Men who are attracted to wearing football breasts while vacuum cleaning. Okay then.

Sorry all this is my last post on this thread, promise.

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 23:34:58

Apparently wine

ParadiseChick Thu 16-May-13 23:37:54

I found a great seller on eBay, there's a lot of there.

Pabo used to be good but not sure about plus size, it's been a while!

Way to take the piss ladies, very clever hmm

MrsLettuce Thu 16-May-13 23:55:40

Er, excuse me <clutches pearls>. I've linked to several pretty nice things in plus size and a couple of things I think are phenomenal from Nermal's excellent link hmm

YoniTime Thu 16-May-13 23:56:09

ParadiseChick are you angry at me for insulting the tracksuitsad

Nermalkins Thu 16-May-13 23:59:42

Well she asked for edgy... Its different strokes and all thatgrin

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 00:00:16

It is what she means, isn't it?

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 00:00:28

Isn't it confused

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 00:05:14

No, I'm absolutely sure I've filled the brief (as it were). No piss taking of the OP by anyone. Some piss taking of the clothing, which clearly isn't to everyone tastes.

We're british (most of us) and we're supposed to titter about sex.

The jacket would be nice and warm and dry in our climate. <hoiks pants>

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 07:24:22

sorry for being brief in an opening post - I want a dress/top+skirt which isn't frumpy, one I can wear for fetish clubs

I would say my choice would be made of something along the lines:
www.libidex.com/html/cart/prod.asp?PID=206&CID=10003&SID=1&pg=2&item=Girls+Dresses
or
www.libidex.com/html/cart/prod.asp?PID=420&CID=10020&SID=1&pg=1&item=Girls+Libidex+Fantasy
or
www.ladylucie.com/50scircledress.htm

I like this one www.fetishwear-uk.co.uk/acatalog/info_3_333.html - but would need to be right for my 34HH bust smile

I am tempted to order :http://www.fetishwear-uk.co.uk/acatalog/info_6_5.html

and try with my non-pvc skirt, as top on it's own will def be hot to wear smile

so this is already good recommendation list

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 07:24:52
happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 07:26:56

I am going to enq about http://www.nicennaughty.co.uk/honour-plus-size-mystique-dress.html
as I am 5'3'' - it may be too long for me sad

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 07:29:00

THe Lady Lucie dress wins hands down IMO, if you can afford it definitely go with one of the pieces. The quality is bound <gniffle> to be much nicer.

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 07:29:49
happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 07:30:59

I agree MrsLettuce

also - not that hot when wearing it smile

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 07:32:03

Exactly. So much choice of colour too!

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 07:46:01

the problem may be that I may look like a lampshade with my size 20 in such dress smile

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 08:08:40

No, you won't at all. That style of dress is extremely flattering on a fuller figure here, here and here. The shape and the petticoat maximise curves really nicely.

Mendi Fri 17-May-13 08:30:22

OP, go to Honour on Lower Marsh behind Waterloo station. The staff in there are very nice and you can try it all on.

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 10:43:51

I would gladly got something in this style - it doesn't have to be pvc or rubber smile
24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m45eo4nCOf1qdfjjto1_1280.jpg

last time I went to Honour near Wateroo they had nothing for me - but worth checking again, I agree

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 11:13:59

Ah, right. That's from Lady Vintage, they do a 20 in the regular range and the plus size range. Great dresses. Do need a petticoat though.

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 11:14:50
happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 11:16:56

also petticoat

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 11:32:47

Great choice!

YoniTime Fri 17-May-13 11:42:43

That's beautiful!

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 11:43:26

I'll order it and try - if my bust will look flat - I'll cry sad

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 11:49:31

no black petticoat in store sad

red won't do I think

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 11:50:49
MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 12:37:50

Am on 3G ATM so not googling, but you can get petticoats on eBay. The best are chiffon like the SAMs ones Vivian of hallway sell mind, pricey though.

Lindy Bop do dresses very similar to the one you've chosen, not sure if they sell petticoats or not.

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 12:52:13

I ordered that purple dress and off to look for petticoats on ebay - thanks for suggestion MrsLettuce smile

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 13:53:47

Watch out that you get the right length for the dress, LadyV usually say which that is in the description.

reasonable selection of +size seamed stockings

Awks Fri 17-May-13 14:47:02

Edgy but classy www.kimwest.co.uk/

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 16:16:21

thanks Awks - very interesting, shame it goes to size 16 and mo more sad

Branleuse Fri 17-May-13 16:30:46

theres some amazing rubber gear on etsy and some can be made to measure

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 19:48:10

So, yeah. You've found you a lovely, flattering frock and petticoat but it's not really kinky or edgy. Should I be having another rummage about or are you sorted?

fluffymindy Fri 17-May-13 20:08:57

Ectomorph does a couple of amazing made to measure latex 50's dresses....

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 20:28:40

I think I would look for another one - so please keep them coming smile

I know what I bought it isn't very kinky, but just right for the tea paries with subs smile

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 20:39:49

I like this look:

ectomorph.com/sales/buy/5/153/latex-corset-top-ectomorph-fetish-designer-london

or this
ectomorph.com/sales/buy/2/60/

both are pricier than I had hoped - but very original

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 20:45:39

Oh yes, it's great! Have you seen GetCutie by the way? Love the Red BOnsai and Cactus prints.

lovely skirt (they specialise in made to measure)
this would be great at just-under-the-knee length

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 20:46:23

x post

That first one is amazing!

BinksToEnlightenment Fri 17-May-13 20:49:31

Could you find a style you like and have it handmade?

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 20:52:46

Another vouch for ectomorph dresses. I get a lot of comments on mine whenever I go out and rarely see anyone in anything similar.

A lot of places are adopting a door policy of 'no fetish by numbers' attendees. (Which is nice as it reduces the number of gawpers.)

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 21:12:48

look what measure they need for that Extomorph goth costume
www.ectomorph.com/sales/order/5/153/Draped%20Neckline%20Corset

it shows that they take great care into making it right

mrscumberbatch - how many dresses do you have for going to clubs?

BinksToEnlightenment - hand made one would be best - I need to enquire to find fabrics and how much would it cost to make one

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 21:15:00

THat's the sort of measurement instruction that I like to see. Grand!

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 21:16:57

I know I should ge a corset too, but the thought of always having someone to do it up for me makes me very unhappy smile

I am very independent lady

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 21:24:58

Would Merry Widow appeal? They're reasonably strict. THese go to a 38E, no idea what size you are though.

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 21:25:58

happyavocado.... god only knows. It's much more fun than regular clothes shopping and pre-dd a lot of it was just my every clothes. (Can't even imagine that now!!)

I have a lot of old lip service stuff. Classic PVC. Some custom latex. Rubber...but not so much a fan.

I am a curvy girl but you really need to dress to your shape as there's so many ill fitting outfits etc that make you wince. Believe it or not I always got invited to participate in more plays when I was wearing PVC from neck to knee. Nothing on show at all. Just very clever corsetry wink

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 21:30:23

E would be too small for me sad
I can see that they go up to 34FF - I need H, but would need to try on - all depends how stretchy is the fabric they use

I always liked their range , but when I looked at their shop a while ago they had clothes only up to the size 14

I am sure they used to do soem victorian garments too around 2-3 years ago

Also- FYI- you don't NEED somebody to do up a corset for you. With a bit of practice you can do it will a full length mirror. I have it down to 20 mins to get strapped in grin

MrsLettuce Fri 17-May-13 21:33:22

envy MrsC

IME the fabric has very little to no stretch. Sorry.

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 21:33:52

I agree about badly fitted clothes - I hate those!

my granny was a dress maker, I grew up watching her making them (never had enough patience to learn everything from her though smile ) , so I look at something and know where there's a mistake in it

making something for myself - I could try, but that is even harder than for another person ;)
esp dresses

I go to a few 'balls' and get bored of seeing the same outfit over and over so have had a couple of attempts at fashioning something myself.

On all occassions- my own effort ended up costing more than double what I would have spent in a shop/online and was held together with glitter basically.

Unless I drastically improve my seamstress skills I am getting somebody else to do the dirty work all the way....

(Speaking of which I met a fabulous corsetier at this event last year. Some really fun and interesting vendors that I would never have found on my own. Definitely worth a weekend)

Nehru Fri 17-May-13 21:42:03

Lol. These "clothes" are gopping.
That Hoover guy. And the font.

Ha ha

happyAvocado Fri 17-May-13 21:49:55

luckily Nehru noone's obliged to wear them unless they want to smile

happyAvocado Mon 20-May-13 17:29:38

purple dress arrived, as predicted - not very edgy smile www.ladyvlondon.com/The-Purple-Hepburn-Dress_A1AZL3.aspx?nh=300292
but fits me and I am going to keep it as it looks good and is comfortable

I am going to look at some other dresses from Lsdy VIntage for evryday use

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Awks Mon 03-Mar-14 18:14:59

This stuff is edgy and gorgeous www.kimwest.co.uk/collections/dresses

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Mon 03-Mar-14 18:58:14

Depending on your budget Kim West might well go above a 16 , definitely worth emailing her, she's lovelysmile

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen Mon 03-Mar-14 19:00:12

In fact Ms West herself is edgy and gorgeousgrin

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