Please help me am going insane! MoB in one week help me with accessories for this dress please

[Ckarr123]

Hi I have changed dresses a hundred times finally decided on the below link but I just cannot decide on hat and jacket colours I feel black too much for mob

I hate my arms so need something I can wear all night and don't like cropped jackets either please help would really appreciate it

I know it's not traditional but I can't stand mob outfits I hope it's ok though I'm a size 18

www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/little-mistress-mesh-detail-maxi-dress/sl915/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=4402#colour:Black Mink,size:

[WooWooChooChoo]

Maybe something like this
www.justlastseason.co.uk/sateen-edge-to-edge-jacket/010038911.html?cgid=JLS_Clothing1_Jackets&dwvar_010038911_color=0303

Or this?
m.coast-stores.com/p/mona-cover-up/1593765?locale=en

They have them both in black too but it would probably be too much black for a wedding.

[Ckarr123]

Thank you