Have NC for this due to photos.
Background: my natural hair is very dark (greying) and I've got v pale (pink toned) skin and dark green eyes. Going to same hairdresser for 5+ years and I've gone from a chestnut all over colour to more and more blonde highlights over the last few years. My colourist and stylist are both the top rated (and most expensive) in their salon.
I was approaching a milestone birthday last year, so asked colourist about trying to go fully blonde - to try something fun and crazy for once in my life. I brought in about 20 magazine pictures of blondes I liked and he picked out the 2 attached as the ones that were most achievable and would suit me (Bobbi Brown model and Claire Danes - those aren't me ). I was hoping for something with a dark base and then light on top. I said we could take it slowly and if it took 6 months that would be fine.
8 months later and I've attached pics of my hair now. Actually it's 10 months as I haven't been back for 2 months and I'm dithering about going or what to ask for - hence I'm asking for your help. Edit: Sorry they're sideways - no idea why it's doing that or how to change it.
This is almost an AIBU but no one in RL likes my colour or thinks it suits me. I know it's not what I was hoping for (at all) and I'm not even sure what colour to call it. Is it more red/auburn maybe? Orange if I'm being mean?
I'm just not sure if this is his way of telling me that an out-and-out blonde won't suit me. But if it is (which would be understandable) why would he have picked out those 2 photos? If he wasn't so well rated, I would be wondering if he just isn't very good at his job.
What irks me slightly is that my stylist changes her hair from blonde to dark and back again every six months - it never takes this long and she goes to a beautiful blonde, although she is young and v pretty so anything would suit her.
At each session, I did try to subtly say that we could go lighter with the blonde and I asked if my hair was just not taking the colour. But I've never been brave enough to complain/question it outright.
I guess I'm asking for your help, advice and expertise. Should I give up on going blonde at this stage? Or is there any way I can try asking again without being horrible/insulting to him?
I realise from looking at the photos that my hair is in fairly bad condition but that's another day's thread I guess.
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Please help me with my hair - pics included
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HairToday2 · 15/09/2016 12:23
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