In the past few years I have slimmed from a size 18/20 to a size 12, yet I have less confidence in how I look and the way I dress now than when I was overweight. I feel that I shouldn't moan now I have more choice of where I can shop and what I can wear, but this is really getting me down.
I very rarely feel comfortable in anything I wear, due to having an awkward shape and a bit of excess skin (on arms, thighs and belly). I have a whole wardrobe of clothes but find myself wearing the same couple of outfits on rotation (leggings and boyfriend shirts mostly), but I want to look more feminine/different/summery.
I wore skinny jeans, a loose silk vest top and thin cardi yesterday, thought I looked ok, but saw myself in a shop window and realised it didnt fit my bust well, hung too loose so made me look bigger, and I felt uncomfortable all day. I don't know if I am choosing the wrong styles, wrong sizes, wrong shapes, or if it's just all in my head.
The trend for boxy type tshirts look awful on me, tight tops show my belly, loose tops make me look bigger, I can't win! Skinny jeans look ok but I struggle to find nice tops that cover my bum. I just don't know how to dress, and I don't have the money to keep buying something, liking it and then realising my mistake when I wear it again.
I think I am a rectangle shape. 32FF bust with narrow shoulders. Not a particularly defined waist, flat bum, slightly chunky thighs, legs ok from knee down.
Can anyone help, or is anyone a similar shape and size? Where do you shop and what clothes suit you?
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I just never seem to get it right, zero confidence
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craptastic · 07/07/2016 10:55
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