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Gold signet rings the upper middle class wear on their little finger

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HanneHolm · 16/12/2013 11:06

why? where from what for?
and has no one pointed out they are one step away from a MOM signet ring from Lizzy duke?

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OneLittleLady · 16/12/2013 11:07

I have honestly never seen someone wearing one. Seen plenty of sovereign rings and mum/dad rings but never anyone with a pinky ring.

HanneHolm · 16/12/2013 11:08

you dont mix in the right circles Wink

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OneLittleLady · 16/12/2013 11:09

Hah, clearly not. Ah well, I think I can live with that Wink

momb · 16/12/2013 11:10

My father wore one but never wore a wedding ring as 'Gentlemen wear their signet ring only.'

It's a the family seal. If we still used wax to seal letters then it would be stamped with the ring before despatch.

SpeedData · 16/12/2013 11:10

It's to show off the family crest.

ShatnersBassoon · 16/12/2013 11:11

I've never noticed them in relation to a certain group of people. I think they're often family heirlooms.

HanneHolm · 16/12/2013 11:11

arf at family seal

Gold signet rings the upper middle class wear on their little finger
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HanneHolm · 16/12/2013 11:11

family crest
in 2013?

Grin

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MirandaWest · 16/12/2013 11:12

I got one for XH when we got engaged. He had his mum's family crest put on it.

HanneHolm · 16/12/2013 11:12

again

a CREST?

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CooEeeEldridge · 16/12/2013 11:13

My parents in law believe that it is a sign of homosexuality. No joke! Once had a conversation where mil was in hospital, doctor treating her happened to mention his wife, but mil / fil thought she didn't exist because...(said in hushed tones) he was wearing a signet ring !!

Artandco · 16/12/2013 11:17

I have one. It was my great great grandmothers and is past down through generations as the eldest child is around 11 years. Funnily the eldest has always been a girl but I only have boys so will give to eldest when he's old enough. I wear on my second smallest finger as too big for smallest

PedantMarina · 16/12/2013 11:24

So, OP, you're saying that anybody who has a family has to be ashamed of it? That geneology and history have no place in 2013?

Congratulations, my first ever Biscuit.

FruOla · 16/12/2013 11:24

I've got one, I inherited it from my Mum - it has her family seal on it. It's a bit too big for the correct finger and I don't like wearing it on the wrong finger!

MirandaWest · 16/12/2013 11:35

Yes my XHs mums family has a family crest. It's not that odd (although has to be said that my family does not have one).

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 16/12/2013 11:40

I think titled/posh males wear a band on the left little finger with the signet ring as well.

Abitannoyedatthis · 16/12/2013 11:42

My dad had one with his dad's family crest and motto but never wore it. Likewise DH has one but wears his wedding ring instead. Lots of families have them. I really don't care what jewellery people wear or don't. I think some men used to get a signet ring on engagement.

ILikeToMoveItMoveIt · 16/12/2013 11:42

Doah - that should read wedding band.

Absy · 16/12/2013 11:47

I first encounted this at university (I went to a univeristy that was stuffed to the gills with rahs) and my flatmate was given one for her 21st birthday. I didn't get it then, I don't get it now.

Normally I use it as criteria for deciding whether or not someone is a bit of a twat.

Damnautocorrect · 16/12/2013 11:56

If my family had a crest id wear it with pride

HanneHolm · 16/12/2013 12:03

Lol at twatmeasure


I think I agree. Plus aesthetically are vile

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WigWearer · 16/12/2013 12:04

Prince Charles wears one. But he is a bit of a cough peacock. By all accounts.

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WigWearer · 16/12/2013 12:07

If my family had a crest id wear it with pride

Every family is as ancient as every other family.

Every family goes back to the dawn of humanity.

WhereIsMyHat · 16/12/2013 12:28

All the MIC boys wear them, guessing they're from their rich Daddy.

I want one.

Absy · 16/12/2013 12:29

Yes yes, I'm with Scout Finch on this one - surely everyone's family is as old as everyone else's? It's just some started reading earlier than others, or raped and pillaged very successfully. It's not like, apart from a select few everyone else kind of landed on this planet 50 years ago.

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