Why are maternity clothes so dire? AKA please dress my fat tummy

(50 Posts)
TondelayoSchwarzkopf Fri 18-Oct-13 20:28:54

First things first: I can't afford the nice brands like Seraphina.

I am 15 weeks and just starting to grow out of normal clothes in the tummy area.

I do not want:
- to ONLY wear black, white or Breton stripes.
- bootleg black trousers or jeans.
- look mumsy.
- T-shirts that say 'Mummy to Be' or 'Baby on Board' OR hoodies OR check shirts.
- I work in an office with sexy young media chicks - I do not want to wear floral tents.

I do have some things from my last pregnancy (way back in 2008) but that was a summer pregnancy so they wouldn't be suitable.

I went through all 600+ maternity items on ASOS (one of the better retailers) last week and found 2 things that I would consider wearing - so I bought them:

New Look Black Maxi Dress - I would prefer another colour but I can wear it with flats, scarf and cotton jacket for work and a statement necklace for night dos.

Breton Striped dress - quite nice, don't want to drown myself in stripes but this would look nice for work with ankle boots and sheer tights.

There are couple of other dresses that I've just realised I like as well:

Orange, cheap & cute

Too summery?

Dresses are not really the issue - what I would really like is

a) really good maternity skinny jeans in black and denim. Last time I wore my usual skinnies all the way through but waists were lower back then. I was thinking about just stocking up on Primark super-soft skinnies as they sit under my tum still - are there any equivalents in maternity ranges?

b) some really lovely blouses - I just bought this non-maternity purple Zara blouse in a size up and really like it but heavens, trying to buy nice, non-black, colourful tops this season is a challenge - even in non-maternity - any ideas?

c) maternity tube skirts or miniskirts that aren't a-line denim. Plus any tight fitting dresses that are NOT black or striped.

d) fashionable but professional work clothes - I work in a creative environment - I can't show up in black suit or frumpy frock which seems to be the maternity office wear on offer!

e) nice mid-height heels - everything seems to be flat or sky high - looking for office pumps (in the American sense) and black strappy ankle boots.

Any ideas would be welcome. I am 5' 8, 12-14, hourglass figure (so pregnancy does not play to my strengths!), light spring, blonde & blue-eyed with good-ish legs (when I can be arsed to wax them). I am also 39 but I wouldn't worry about age-appropriateness mutton dressed as lamb

Thank you so much in advance and excuse the length of this post flowers

TondelayoSchwarzkopf Fri 18-Oct-13 20:31:25

Bloody hell that was long. doesn't expect anyone to read it

VenusDeWillendorf Fri 18-Oct-13 20:35:07

Google ivanka trump. She's just popped her sprog, and I think i remember her looking pretty pulled together when preggo.

She recommended a jacket over dresses, with flats and heels iirc.
Oh, congrats!

milktraylady Fri 18-Oct-13 20:36:39

Matalan has maternity jeans. In store to try on. Everyone else seems to only have maternity clothes online. V annoying! Try h&m or next?

TondelayoSchwarzkopf Fri 18-Oct-13 20:52:42

I got this from the Ivanka Trump google Venus - Isabella Oliver cobalt & grey dress - really lovely - though still a bit pricey even with the discount.

Matalan? Really? I would never have thought of them milktray - I must pop there.

This is the best thing I can find on Next and it's grey AGAIN - where is the colour?

TheDetective Fri 18-Oct-13 20:53:34

I had similar requirements, I liked New Look. I've just had a quick browse and saw some things that seemed to meet what you liked!

grin

www.newlook.com/shop/maternity/view-all-maternity/_/N-9jy?No=100&Nrpp=100&Ns=publish.date%7C1

AnythingNotEverything Fri 18-Oct-13 21:01:41

H&M do good jeans - both straight and skinny. I've worn and worn mine and they've kept their colour well. Gap maternity jeans look good, but they never had my size to try and I think they're online only now. They also do interesting shapes and prints though.

I got some tube skirts from H&M and Next.

M&S do good maternity tights.

I've had some good basic tees from asos and H&M, and got some bargains on eBay including an Isabella Oliver dress and some stuff from M&S which is no longer available.

There's no avoiding the stripes I'm afraid. I'm two days overdue and will be off stripes for a number of years I fear ...

Sassee Fri 18-Oct-13 21:01:56

My local primark has maternity jeans. No idea what they're like, came too late for me.

ThatsNotMyDueDate Fri 18-Oct-13 21:11:55

I feel your pain. I'm on no.3 and have to face the fact that I am going to have to spend some money as I'm not wearing some of the awful stuff I had last time again. Plus I was in a very conservative office and am currently a SAHM, so it doesn't all translate that well.

I'm thinking of getting maternity tights with cats on them grin

TondelayoSchwarzkopf Fri 18-Oct-13 21:13:40

TheDetective - yes, New Look and Asos seem to be the best, there are a couple of dresses (the lovely teal one, the roseprint body con) now in my basket.

What is it about the stripes Anything - I feel your pain and have grown to hate stripes because they are ubiquitous, so hard to accessorise and always imply 'casual' - I find it hard to feel smart and professional in stripes.

I didn't know that Primark did maternity - this is great news Sassee

TondelayoSchwarzkopf Fri 18-Oct-13 21:17:30

What about a onesie ThatsNot - smart AND casual don't you think? grin

Isabella Oliver has just GORGEOUS things included such a lovely pink wrap top but I am going on maternity leave and cannot afford to lavish seventy quid on one top.

ThisIsMeNow Fri 18-Oct-13 21:17:37

Have you tried topshop maternity? I'm a bit hmm with h&m maternity, not much I can see online.

LittlePandaBear Fri 18-Oct-13 21:18:08

I've got a few New look maternity jeans - do the job and only about £20. They have them in lots of leg lengths too which is useful and rare!

Top Shop also have a maternity range online which you may want to look at? None of it's really grabbed me but if you're a creative type then you could probably figure out how to wear it!

I've also got a few things from this website:Yummy mummy
But depends how short you want dresses as I'm only 5ft 2 but the lengths seem perfect for me at just above the knee. It seems like a lot of pregnancy dresses are made for tall people which I guess isn't a problem for you smile

They stock lots of mamalicious stuff and you could also try their own website, lots of affordable clothes that are more interesting than Next's pathetic offering!

Good luck with the hunt thlsmile

McFox Fri 18-Oct-13 21:20:11

I'm in the same boat - I dress pretty much exclusively vintage, mainly 40s/50s dresses (I don't own trousers, hate them) and I'm really struggling to find anything I like. I'll have to give some of these suggestions a go smile

Alanna1 Fri 18-Oct-13 21:20:48

Gumtree. Ebay. Friends who've had baby 1 recently.

K8Middleton Fri 18-Oct-13 21:21:01

Asos.com

Don't bother going any where else. Unless you want work stuff or jeans. Go to Gap for maternity jeans.

I'm a similar shape/height to you and I'd recommend H&M maternity jeans.
I had some under the bump ones that lasted throughout my pregnancy (DC3) in black, blue and indigo. I also picked up a few pairs of cheap/comfy mid heel shoes in there. (DC3 is 9 months now though so no idea what their range is like ATM)
For dresses I bought quite a few stretchy (non-maternity) ones from Dorothy Perkins. They were a range of colours/patterns but not the hideous ones retailers think women want to wear when they're pregnant and I always got compliments when I wore them and felt fab in them too.

ThisIsMeNow Fri 18-Oct-13 21:23:36

Will try to link but on phone so bear with!

this blue one

green

tube skirt

orange dress

TondelayoSchwarzkopf Fri 18-Oct-13 21:26:45

There are loads of nice dresses if you look but trying to buy nice and cheapish maternity tops that aren't casual / striped / sloganed is much more challenging.

Another idea I had was getting a couple of those Kimono style polyester silk tops that New Look & Zara have and wearing it over a maternity vest.

Thanks for all the suggestions, keep em coming.

TondelayoSchwarzkopf Fri 18-Oct-13 21:28:25

Love that orange dress this - already on the list.

Ginformation Fri 18-Oct-13 21:33:56

Seraphine have 20% off some key items at the mo... I have some of their work black trousers and a couple of work appropriate tops from the seraphine sale. Great for taller folk. Sizes are big tho.

TheDetective Fri 18-Oct-13 21:40:04

New Look do a lot of dresses in this kind of style, I wore these in the middle trimester. Once I was about 36 weeks they didn't feel as comfy though.

I wore a lot of non maternity actually. Maternity tights or leggings/jeans for comfort with regular tops or dresses were just fine.

Disclaimer: My bump was not the mahooooooosive type!

ThisIsMeNow Fri 18-Oct-13 22:09:28

Hmm, tops? I've got some from dotty pj's that are not maternity but I think they'd work. Let me see if i can link...

frankietwospots Fri 18-Oct-13 22:13:23

Boden wrap tops are fab and are great for breast feeding too. 20% off with code Z363.

pootlebug Fri 18-Oct-13 22:18:20

For as long as you can make it work - normal jeans with a bog-standard hair bobble acting as an extender between button and buttonhole, with a long top over.

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