Dress to get married in (but not a wedding dress)

[EllaRees]

We're getting married in March but with our sticky 18 month old son in attendance I don't think white is the way to go... Can anyone recommend a starting point for shopping in London please? I know I could roam the department stores but I was thinking of somewhere more like a boutique/independent shop or dressmaker. I really like the look of Decades vintage bridal shop but it's too expensive for me - budget under £500, which is surely enough for a nice frock!
Any suggestions very welcome.

[DaisyHayes]

Ok, what size are you?

And - I know that you think you don't want a wedding wedding dress, but how about a vintage one, like this 1970s one which is much cooler than a Monsoon type job and really pretty?

[DaisyHayes]

Or if definitely against white, what about something like this 50s cocktail dress? Or am I barking up the wrong tree here?

[EllaRees]

Thanks for your help! I'm size 8 in Monsoon and 10 in Reiss but those fit my wide hips/smaller top half pear shape - some places just plain don't fit.

I would like full length.

You're right - vintage does make it less weddingy, but I had a silvery blue grey colour in mind I think.

[mythical]

shame you want full length i think these are gorgeous link

[mythical]

this is a website that does bespoke dresses - link

[FlabbyGleek]

Whirling Turban also does made to measure and ready to wear vintage style dresses - worth a look?

[FlabbyGleek]

And a website called Courtesan Boutique was one of the first sites I saw linked to on here and they have some beautiful dresses!

[DaisyHayes]

This is rather lovely. And not too weddingy.

[mippy]

Monsoon have a dress called Betty or Betsy that's a kind of silvery teal colour. Not full lenght, though.

[DoubleDegreeStudent]

Aftershock on South Molton Street have an evening gown section downstairs. Their website is a bit iffy, and their collections can be a bit hit and miss, but worth popping by if you are in the area. I tried on this but in cream, not black and white. It was gorgeous, but a bit more than I could justify spending. I still wish I'd bought it...

[wompoopigeon]

Liberty is always worth a look. Got my twenties style wedding dress from there. It was sold as an evening dress not wedding dress so good value.

[zoley]

I didn't want to get married in a wedding dress either so I bought a vintage cocktail dress pattern on Ebay, asked friends for dressmaker recommendations and found a great one locally.
4 appointments over 2 months and I got married in exactly the dress that I wanted (teal silk, fitted beautifully) for the very reasonable sum of £230 and was very happy with it!
Good luck in your dress search, hope you find something beautiful.

[emsyj]

Joanne Fleming in Brighton does bespoke and her prices are quite reasonable - it says from £800 on the website I think, but I paid a lot less than that.

I sell 50s style dresses ((plug plug plug)) and many of them come in full length too - and in different colours. I have a zillion fabric swatches for them. Most are under £500 too. Private mail me if you want a link to my site - don't want to post as should not advertise.

[ZhenXiang]

Maybe this?

[ZhenXiang]

This site does hundreds of evening/prom dresses, but you can pick the colour and size from a wide range and they deliver to you. Not vintage, but some styles are obviously based on vintage cuts.

[Ifancyashandy]

What about something from Lucy In Disguise (Lily Allens company). Prices start around £150 Available in Harvey Nicks.

This is lovely here

[ZhenXiang]

Another one from same site.

[ZhenXiang]

and another.

[ZhenXiang]

Just found this site maybe this?

[WishIwasCherryMenlove]

Ella am having very similar wedding next May with DS who will be just over 2 in attendance. I have been looking about for non weddingy dresses, thinking of going to Candy Anthony who do 50s style prom dresses.

Emsyj I will try to send you a message, but not quite sure how, can you send me your link to your website also?

[AWimbaWay]

I love this dress www.bhldn.com/the-shop_dresses/ophelia-dress, quite fancy though and shipped from the states so a bit of a pin if it didn't fit.

[tethersend]

Go to Kingly Court in Carnaby street, lots of high end vintage shops there- get a full length 'evening dress'.

Then check out blackout 2 in covent garden

Then head up to Alfie's antique market on edgware road and look at deborah woolf

[tethersend]

Some ideas:

Here

Purple Alexander McQ

Galliano

My favourite wedding dress

Damsel in a Dress

Amanda Wakeley

[AWimbaWay]

babyceylon.com/?show=piece&id=839&colour=164&cat=27 In the smoke colour?

[AWimbaWay]

baby ceylon (above dress) have a shop on Portobello Rd and one in Crouch End.