I have been with my boyfriend for eighteen months and we are now living together. My five year old son lives with us and his two daughters (one biological (7), one step (13))live with their mum but sleep over a couple of times a week. To be honest his children are mostly really well behaved and lovely girls. The problem is not them at all - it's him. He tells my son off fairly frequently, not in a horrible way but all the same it has started to bother me. On the other hand he never ever tells his own children off and if there is even the slightest suggestion that his children, while lovely most of the time, might not be perfect he flies off the handle. His attitude seems to be that he doesn't see his children all the time so they can do whatever they like but it's ok to tell my son off because he lives with us. My ex-husband is very much in the picture and by that I mean he is a great dad and sees a lot of his son. I just feel that after only a month or so of living together we should be easing the kids into the new situation and not creating divisions and problems between them when they get on so well. My son has started to pick up on this favouritism and I don't want him to feel like he is being picked on.
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My boyfriend disciplines my son but the same does not apply to his own children
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Becky36 · 28/01/2010 19:38
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