My sister has been with her DP for 5 years. He has 3 DC's the youngest one 6 years old. He was a SAHD for the fist 6 months of his youngest's life and then was told to leave by his exp and the relationship ended. He then met my sister 3 months later.
He had to move back to his home town 4 hours drive away from his DC's as he could not afford to live near to them as he had no job etc. (this is where he met my sister)
He decided to retrain and do an apprentaship so he could work his career around seeing his children. Through his retraining my sister has fully supported him and has taken him on holiday etc.
His exp has often refused to let him see his dc's for months on end (as a reaction for my sister taking him on holiday) and been abusive etc about their relationship.
He has now fully retrained and has been offered a job which is great for his career but would mean that (due to csa payments and the cost of him driving picking up the kids and returning them every month) would result in my sister still supporting him slightly.
I'm finding it hard to be a kind ear to my sister atm as she is finding the financial and emotional burden of having a dp with children hard. I have 1 dc and she is both of our first so I can't put myself in her position.
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pippaNnippa · 14/01/2010 13:28
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