Hello! Step-parenting is a whole new topic on MN for me, but my partner and I are talking about the long term and I want to make sure we get this right from the start.
I have two DCs (10 and 3) from my previous relationship (never married), and ex and I have a relatively strong co-parenting partnership, although we do sometimes still disagree on significant things.
My current DP is the absolute love of my life, and I am delighted that we are now beginning to talk about a future together, which will certainly involve living together and likely marriage too (although this isn't a priority for either of us, we aren't religious and neither has considered it in previous relationships). I have introduced him gradually to the DC, being guided by his and their feelings, and now they have a good strong foundation of friendship to build upon. He seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with them, and is kind and patient when they arse about The DC often ask when they will next see him, and seem happy and relaxed in his company.
We don't intend to rush into this, but I thought it might be good to get advice from people who've been there so that we can make this as easy and painless as possible for everyone involved. Soooooo, what are the most important things for us to consider here? What would you have done differently with hindsight? Any thoughts from people who've been through this would be gratefully received!
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textbook · 23/01/2017 19:13
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