Has any one had to apply for a Court Order for this?
Situation is DS1 has lived with myself and DH since age of 17 months and is now 11.5 years old. DH and I have two further children (8,3) and DS1's home has always been with us. DS1 has seen ex and step-mum regularly at half-terms and holidays (we take him there and Ex returns him) but decreasing contact across the years as they live 300 miles away and decreased contact when their own kids arrived (and there is a whole other thread about how ex has let DS1 down refusing the one to one time DS1 asked for and failing to pay 11 months of maintenance).
DS1's new secondary school requires that you have parental responsibility to access the online learning gateway and thus this has triggered the need for DH to obtain step-parent parental responsibility (although it had occurred to us years ago) and actually seems absurd that he does not have it (regularly has all kids on his own at night when I'm working shifts, has taken DS1 away on trips on his own cycling/rugby etc). The Ex won't agree - which is ridiculous and very hurtful given he has no day to day contact nor responsibility for DS1 and has not had any for 10 years. In any case step-parent parental responsibility is additional and takes nothing away from Ex. So looks like Ex's refusal is driving DH to seek a court order. Would really appreciate any advice and experiences please?
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Bythebeach · 15/11/2016 12:24
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