Part of this is an SP issue and part isn't, but I welcome thoughts about either...
DSS (14) arrived for a week's contact today and the frames of his glasses were broken. It happened during a 'playfight' with his brother (20) and cousin. Last month he broke his hand in a similar 'playfight' and had to be in one of those plastic cast things for 6 weeks.
I hate playfighting; I think it is just an excuse for violence, but I know some people think it is ok/normal between siblings. But surely it isn't still appropriate or safe for a 20 year old man to 'playfight' with a 14 year old? DSS doesn't playfight here at all (in fact you wouldn't find a gentler, more patient child with his sibling) but it seems to be a regular thing at his mothers and certainly seems to be getting more violent as the kids get older. DSS says that sometimes the younger sibling of the cousin joins in 'if they annoy her' and she's still at primary school!
DH is considering having a word with DSS's mum (but doesn't think it will do any good at all.) Are we over-reacting?
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balia · 27/08/2016 16:57
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