There's been some issues over the years with her not treating my kids the same as their 2 younger ones and by that I mean leaving them out of stuff, they are not allowed to stay at their house for over night stays, instead ex has to take them to his mum's and they are also not allowed to have much to do with their little half sister like they're not allowed to pick her up or cuddle her without permission.
The final straw was the other day when the kids came home from a day out with them very upset because the sm had said things about me to the kids about my financial situation and how my ds had offered me petrol money to help him get to his new job in the next town (very late finishes). I shouldn't be accepting this apparantly and I was a terrible mother who needed to sort her priorities out...and then I had a face book rant about maintenance from her saying that in her opinion her husband should no longer be paying maintenance as they were now 14 and 16 and big enough to stand on their own too feet, I was bleeding him and her family dry and I should get a back bone and support myself. Now me and my dp work, he works full time nights and I work part time cleaning. I gave up my career and we'll paid job to bring up my kids and ds 16 has aspergers and adhd which caused me to have a breakdown a few years back. She said my parenting was the cause of his issues and if she had her way maintenance would be stopped.
How do I handle her? The kids dread seeing their dad, as she is there for meals and stuff, I've never ran down their dad in front of my teens but it's so hard not too, ex just doesn't say a word when she starts which enrages my son and causes him to have a meltdown which I then get slagged off for. Please help, my kids are so miserable
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Exs partner resenting my teenagers, how do I handle this
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blackheartsgirl · 07/08/2016 13:45
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