I'm 33 weeks pregnant with twins, I've had a pretty easy pregnancy so far really but am getting quite tired & uncomfortable now. Not sleeping too well & it's starting to take it's toll!
I live with DP and we have his DS (7) and DD (9) stay every weekend.
This morning at 6am they were all up and playing cards, with the TV on in the living room (we're in a bungalow & I was sleeping in bedroom just across the hall). They were all talking & playing in normal voices, doors open, like it was the middle of the day which woke me up & I couldn't sleep after that at all. I'd probably had 4 hours sleep in between cramps & trips to the loo so I wasn't especially jovial!
When I said to DP that they weren't being very considerate this morning, it turned into a rant from DP about his children not doing anything wrong & that I should get used to it because sleep deprivation will be much worse when the twins are here. Of course I know it will be, but I said I would expect everyone in the household to be considerate of other people sleeping, whether there are twins in the house or not!
I really would expect my partner to have some consideration, especially with my current heavily pregnant status and to keep the noise down and tell my DSS & DSD to do the same!
It seems I'm not allowed to say anything 'critical' of his children without it causing an argument. We've been living together for 3 years now & I treat them as much as I can as if they're my own, we are close and I do tell them off etc as needs be, as I would my own children. I do school runs to help his ex, go to school events etc to support them, so we're really pretty lucky as blended families go, but I feel like I have no support here and his children can do no wrong at the moment!
AIBU or would you also be a bit upset by this?
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HorseyGal · 18/06/2016 22:37
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