Just saying up front too; I'd feel the same if it was my DS as it being my DSS.
Apparently DS had sent a recent text to a dead phone number for my DH saying he wanted to come home Friday. But DS didnt follow it up, and I have spoken to him today and he's on his way!
His BM and brothers knew he was coming some time ago (not sure when but for say a week). They don't tell us, or me, or perhaps they did tell my DH but DH denies that (he has for for hiding things but is getting better).
It is often the case that I am outside the loop.
I make a bit of fuss about not knowing stuff, and it's improving. DH seems to understand about bed making and massive food provision and me being an insider and not incidental, and he is trying.
I am a bit peeved because now the weekend will consist of sorting out a purchase of a new computer for DSS and I will be left sorting out everything else, and all the other kids. There'll be laundry (him doing) and unwanted uni kit lying about the place. It's easier if I knew that was the plan. I feel a bit dashed.
I will still make a fuss of DSS, doing lovely food and asking how he is, and lots of smiling. But I will nudge him to text me too next time. We do text sometimes, but he's a boy and there's not much chat.
Anyone else preparing to force smiling their way through Bank holiday weekend??
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Bank Holidays! Again, I'm the last to learn step son is coming home from Uni for the Bank Hol weekend.
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DontMindTheStep · 27/05/2016 17:44
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