I have just recently separated from my partner of 3 years. For the last year my son and I lived with my partner but in the 2 years prior to that, my partner stayed over at our house frequently and so a bond had been developing for some time. My son is 5 1/2 years old now and over the last 3 years bonded with my partner quite considerably and loved spending time with him. My son does also have a close relationship with his own father who shares custody half and half but saw my partner as a stepfather and loved him.
Anyway, I have had to move out of our shared home and back home with my Mum (Agggh!) but obviously my son is desperate to see my now ex partner still and I am not sure what to do. Will it confuse him more in the long run? I don't want to damage my son anymore than he is already. When I separated from his father, he was very small and so never questioned it. However, at 5 1/2 years old, he can't understand why he can't see his stepfather. Amy advice would be appreciated.
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Separated from partner (SF). Should I let my DS still see his SF?
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Staunts79 · 15/05/2016 21:46
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