Regular but have NCd for this... sorry it's long...
DSS is 10 and is with us EOW. About a year ago he started asking for friends to come over for 'playdates' during weekend. DH and I agreed this was great - why would he want to spend a whole weekend with two adults.
This seems to have snowballed a bit though and I'd like some advice....
The playdates became sleepovers, first with one friend and then with two. Then he stopped asking about playdates and just asked for sleepovers. It's not every weekend with us but becoming much more frequent.
On the plus side, I know it's completely expected at this age. DSS has a great time, his friends are very polite and we haven't had any dramas.
On the minus side, a sleepover eats into Sunday - the last couple of times, one or other set of parents has not been able to collect on a Sunday morning and so we have the friend with us until 1pm - almost 24 hours - which I think is too much.
So with the latest sleepover request, I said to DH, let's do a playdate instead. DSS isn't happy. AIBU?
I'd love to hear from mums and stepmums with much more playdate and sleepover experience than I have - how often do you do them, for how many friends etc.
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Lalalamb · 30/03/2016 10:44
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